Today feels like a day of disappointment. Not all around, but in the area that I was most hopeful. I woke up this morning thinking that today would be the day that I get a job, or at least an interview. I woke up feeling like something would happen today that would move me into the right direction, that will take me one step forward... Nothing.
Without getting into that tragic tales, let's consider the 'bad' guys.
Like seriously, can men get any more confusing.
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It is this notion that often leads women to hang onto men who treat them like krap, in the belief that the man would eventually 'change'. They believe that bad guys are essentially nice guys pretending to be tough so that they cannot get hurt. Which is true in some cases... like men who pretend to be overly confident when they are really extremely insecure; men who actually lie about themselves because they feel that inadequate. Men seem to easily juxtapose contradictory characteristics as if it were normal and then blame women for overanalysing things when they merely try to work out WTF is going on with their man.